I tell my wife I'm going on a service call and I go visit another women for sex. Sometimes instead of making $50-$100 like I would on a real service call, I spend that much in various ways with this hobby of mine.
I have a new job working with about a dozen young women who are casually dressed. I like it, but it also makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm afraid that I will upset someone or get labeled a pervert or something if I give an appreciative look at one of them.